About Glow

For as long as I can remember, I could feel people's despair and wanted to find out where it came from. So, as a teenager, I began to research it. I interviewed as many teenagers as I could, looking for answers, and found its source. I realized that I was hearing different versions of the same story: child abuse. And everyone, myself included, was suffering in living hell because of it.

But knowing the cause of despair was only half of it; I wanted to solve it. The next step was to look for solutions. 

That opportunity presented itself when I became a parent myself almost exactly 10 years to the day after I began my research. And for the next 30 years after that, I tried different approaches. 

One idea I had was to see if despair could be reversed. During that time, I started my own clothing label and immediately started a free fashion design program for at-risk teens and young adults. I taught them how to start their own clothing brands and launched their labels at my store. When I talked with the young artists, I heard the same backstories of child abuse all over again. 

I decided to see if I could help them get rid of their despair. The good news was that I was able to spark their potential. The bad news was that it was only temporary. I couldn’t erase their memories. Their trauma was embedded inside their subconscious. I came to the conclusion that once despair has been developed, it is very difficult to undo. It’s better not to develop despair in the first place. 

At the same time, for over 13 years, my husband and I managed youth athletic programs and taught nearly a thousand athletes confidence, strength, perseverance, and pride. This time, I had access to parents, so I decided to research how parents treated their children. 

While most parents were supportive, some were not. I could immediately tell which kids were being mistreated and who weren’t. I witnessed some parents developing their children’s despair in real time. I saw the very same parental mistakes that all of the teenagers and young adults in living hell told me about. I knew what those children would be up against. Their parents were repeating the cycle of abuse with their children. 

As a parent, I was determined not to let the same thing happen to my kids. This time, I was the parent. I would experience firsthand how behavioral development took shape. I became my own research.

Could I end abuse with me? Because I come from a long line of maulers, I knew that I was at a higher risk for child abuse. I had to think very carefully about how to approach parenting. Even if I failed at everything else in my life, parenting was NOT going to be one of them. I needed a plan. 

As I squeezed my brain for knowledge, I had an epiphany! I already knew all the ways that parents hurt their children and also knew the end results. All I had to do with mine was not to make those very same mistakes. 

Since crying is the first step towards despair, I decided to challenge myself not to make my children cry. I made a list of dos and don’ts, and whys and why-nots of parenting. I came up with 12 parental techniques and mapped out when and how to use those techniques during an entire childhood. 

My husband and I followed these techniques to the T, and I eagerly watched what happened. The result: days became weeks, weeks became months, then years became decades; my children did not cry. As if children who didn’t cry weren't mind-blowing enough, something else even more incredible happened. They had restraint. When I watched each of my three sons flick away peer pressure and choose not to be self-destructive, I knew that I finally found the solution to despair! My children were free from chaos. And the Tearless Childhood was born. 

My next step is to share my knowledge. Now, more than ever, people are searching for answers and a way out of chaos. And I have just the answer.

End Abuse With You: 20-Year Parenting shares everything I have learned during my 40 years of research. I teach parents how to prevent despair from developing in their children. I warn parents about what could happen if they abuse their children. 

I also share the same techniques I used to teach my children restraint. I went even further and mapped out an entire childhood so parents could understand how to use these techniques in real time, starting from pregnancy until their kids reach young adulthood. I show parents that it is possible to develop their children’s behavior and raise happy and confident children with strong mindsets without ever hurting them or making them cry. 

Right now, the scale may be tipped towards chaos, but a new generation of parents can tilt it to the other side. And I will spend the rest of my life making sure that it does. 

The information contained in End Abuse With You: 20-Year Parenting is priceless. It is the blueprint for world peace. Fate intervened on Earth’s behalf. Its timing is impeccable: not too early, not too late, but right on time. Fate is calling on you now, parents. Only you can end chaos. 

End Abuse With You!